What is The Ultimatum?

The Ultimatum is a free web application that allows you to create elegant ultimatums for engagement rings. You can upload a ring image, set specifications (diamond type, metal, size), add a personal message, and set a countdown deadline. Then share the link with your partner to let them know exactly what you want and when you want it.

Is The Ultimatum free to use?

Yes, The Ultimatum is completely free to use. You can create unlimited ultimatums, share them with anyone, and track their views without any cost.

How do I create an ultimatum?

Creating an ultimatum is simple: 1) Upload a photo of your dream ring (optional), 2) Select diamond type (natural, lab-grown, or no preference), 3) Set ring specifications like metal type, diamond shape, and size, 4) Choose a deadline date and add a personal message, 5) Share the generated link with your partner.

Is my information secure?

Yes, your privacy is important to us. All data is encrypted and stored securely. We do not share your personal information with third parties without your consent. You can read our full Privacy Policy for more details.

What happens when the deadline expires?

When the countdown timer reaches zero, the ultimatum shows as expired. The ultimatum link remains accessible so your partner can still view it. What happens next is entirely up to you and your relationship - The Ultimatum is for entertainment and communication purposes only.

Can I edit or delete my ultimatum?

Yes! If you create a free account, you can manage all your ultimatums from your dashboard. You can edit the specifications, change the deadline, update the message, or delete the ultimatum entirely at any time.

How to Choose the Perfect Engagement Ring: A Complete Guide

Understanding the 4Cs of Diamonds

When shopping for an engagement ring, the first thing you need to understand is the 4Cs: Cut, Color, Clarity, and Carat weight. These four characteristics determine a diamond's quality and value.

Cut

The cut is arguably the most important factor in a diamond's beauty. A well-cut diamond will reflect light brilliantly, while a poorly cut one will appear dull. Look for diamonds graded as Excellent or Very Good.

Color

Diamond color is graded on a scale from D (colorless) to Z (light yellow). For most engagement rings, diamonds in the G-H range offer excellent value while appearing colorless to the naked eye.

Clarity

Clarity refers to the presence of internal inclusions or external blemishes. VS1 and VS2 grades are popular choices as inclusions are not visible without magnification.

Carat

Carat refers to the diamond's weight. While bigger isn't always better, most people prefer diamonds between 0.5 and 2 carats for engagement rings.

Popular Ring Styles

Solitaire

The classic solitaire features a single diamond on a simple band. This timeless style lets the diamond take center stage.

Halo

A halo setting surrounds the center stone with smaller diamonds, making the center stone appear larger and adding extra sparkle.

Three Stone

Three stone rings symbolize the past, present, and future of your relationship. They're both meaningful and stunning.

Tips for Ring Shopping

1Know your partner's style - Pay attention to the jewelry they currently wear

2Set a budget - Decide what you're comfortable spending before you start shopping

3Get the right size - Borrow a ring they wear on their ring finger, ask a friend for help, or follow our [ring size guide](/en/blog/ring-size-guide)

4Choose a reputable jeweler - Look for certified diamonds and good return policies

5Consider the lifestyle - Active people may prefer lower-set diamonds that won't snag

Still deciding between a natural and a lab-grown stone? Read our [lab-grown vs. natural diamonds comparison](/en/blog/lab-grown-vs-natural-diamonds). And if you're the one who wants the ring, don't leave it to guesswork — [tell your partner exactly what you want](/en/blog/how-to-tell-him-what-ring-you-want) or [create a free ring ultimatum](/en/create) with the full spec.

Happy ring shopping!

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